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Thursday, 31 January 2013


          I just finished an article and then I wondered what to write about next for in my short time of writing I have filled my pages with all the emotions I could think of and I didn’t exactly feel very loving at that point in time so in few words I was blocked and just then with the help of a feeling of apprehension and worry I realized that I could write out my emotions without explaining it in its truest form so in a haste I named it man’s greatest worries. The problem was I didn’t know what man worried about most. I knew my worries but thinking for others was such a huge job. I considered various possible options including money, security, health and even insurance but all of it boiled down to one thing, choice.
      Don’t put it down before you hear me out, every day you have to choose to do these or that and at those times either consciously or not you wonder whether or not you’ve made the right choice, whether or not it will end well, whether you are right or wrong and even though you’ve lost faith in Santa and don’t believe in wishes you still want to see how your choices would end up even before you’ve decided. For a gambler the worry about choice is his usual expertise because he has to literarily play his cards right to avoid losing his fortune and gaining more from others. Choices are everywhere waiting for you to decide and so you have to rationalize your risks and still pray it’s the right one. Anyone who would expect to go through life making all the right choices is either in dreamland or plain insane.
          Sometimes I used to wish that I didn’t have to make all the choices because then I would have someone to blame for its repercussions. I get so worried thinking of what to choose, what will happen if I choose what I chose especially if the choice has to be made in a short time. Man spends so much time worrying about his choices that he sometimes refuses to make a choice until forced to. Sometimes I imagine that I don’t have to make a choice especially when it’s a tough decision, I believe it  and sometimes it feels so good but it doest last too long and then again comes the restless nights and constant worrying.
        I will love to  be brave enough to tell you to stop worrying about all your choices and that it will be alright but as physics says `for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction’ so that would be a lie. Rationalizing doesn’t always work so the only thing I can tell you now is that it is alright not to always make right choices and anytime you make a wrong choice, trace your steps and start over.

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